Wednesday, December 01, 2004

The Strongest Women I've Ever Saw

This story is about my grandma

Yesterday, I still had a grandma. But Today, I don't have her anymore. Coz' GOD have her by HIS side
What I'm thinking right now is, how come my grandma have such strong will to life, I saw it in front of my eyes everyday before she died.

06.30 PM I arrived in the hospital, I thought that it's just a common situation (coz' we already had the emergency call for 4 times, this time was the fifth call). After I arrived there I felt the atmosphere was very unpleasant, my grandma's heart rate is very weak it's very unusual.

07.00 PM all of the family member was called to come in to the room. My father, auntie, uncle droped their tears, they talk to my grandma to let it all go, all of us just want her to rest in peace. But everything we said is not make her left us.

07.15 PM My grandma's heart rate is getting weaker, it was even touch the 0, but then she gain power so she didn't pass away, 5 minutes later the heart rate was getting stronger.

07.20 PM this time the heart rate is about 20 - 30 beat/minute. What I was thinking about that time is, "how come the heart rate is getting stronger ? what's make her to have such strong will ?"

Until 5 minutes later, when all of the children talking about her dress, after finished talking about it then she passed away.
What's the matter with the dress ? I asked about it to my auntie and she said that it was a habit to my grandma to collect nice dress. And maybe what her will is to make her as beautiful as we can using her dress which she'd collect all of her life.

07.25 PM my grandma passed away. I think it was the best for her. she has already had a hard time for more then 12 year cuased by PARKINSON. And this time her condition was very bad, so bad that even she had a pain, she can't express it because she can't speak no more.

If you think you've saw a strongest women, well maybe it's your opinion, but for me my grandma is the strongest women I've ever saw. She had the strongest will to life, She had such discipline in her life, and most important thing, She had a family who love her so much.

Right now, maybe I had a little sad. But it's not a problem, coz' it's just a new chapter for our family to live a life without my grandma.

Gut Bye Granny ... Love you so ..
Maybe when I was a child I always make you sad by mocking you, disobey you. Yupeee .. I was such a CRAZY boy ... but not anymore today .. It's all just because my grandma.

15 Comments:

Anonymous hEnNy sHinE said...

may she rest in peace .. god bless =)

8:15 AM  
Anonymous Rio Prasetia said...

ooh sorry to hear that dude :(

Hope she find her happiness up there beside Him

9:31 AM  
Anonymous nathan hondokusumo said...

I'm really sorry for thatโ€ฆ hope you guys are alright soon. GBU

10:40 AM  
Anonymous ็‡•้œž ้™ˆ said...

sorry about that Wan.. aku kagum banget km sayang pol ama granny mu.. let the life goes on.. I believe ur grandma sit comfy beside HIM..

12:33 AM  
Anonymous .mia.b. .sushi. .r.gent. said...

my sincere condolences to you and your family... somehow these past few days, many of us have been touched by death in one way or another... may she rest in peace...

5:34 AM  
Anonymous Belinda Wang said...

my biggest condolences for you and ur family wak....=)
i really don't know how to say...coz i don't have any grandma...i wish i had...
=) may she will be in that special place beside God....God bless u

8:06 AM  
Anonymous Iwan Khoe said...

Thank You all GUYS ..
Everything is OK now ..
I'm glad to have all of you to support me ..

7:21 PM  
Anonymous Bin Hwee Ping said...

*hugs*

11:40 PM  
Anonymous Iwan Khoe said...

*Muuuuuuuuuuacccccchhhhhh*

4:26 AM  
Anonymous Belinda Wang said...

o...gendenge kumat lagi huuhhuhuhuhuhuhuhu

10:14 AM  
Anonymous Iwan Khoe said...

huahahahahahah
so what ? hehe j/k
ehh long time no see .. kemana aja neh ?

7:22 PM  
Anonymous Belinda Wang said...

huhuhuhuhu emank lagi musim SO WHAT yo kabeh wong kok ngomonk gitu hauhauhua tp emank enak kok heuaheuaheu
adoh wak....pahamilah jeritan hati saya yang banyak tugas hauahuahu gendeng iso muring2 aku piro hari iki....huhuuhhu untung yo minggu depan freeee yesss......matek tapie onok teknik presentasi..wadoh gaisa aku ...dredeg kabeh huhuhuhu

4:23 AM  
Anonymous Iwan Khoe said...

wahh gitu yah ? kalo loe mau presentasi ada tekniknya sendiri tuh, harus yakin kalo punyaanmu paling bener, meskipun km ngerasa ada salahnya tetep hrs ngerasa bener dewe .. hehe
butuh pelatih nih ? hubungin gua .. Rp. 100.000 / jam .. huahahaha

eniwei gut luck yee buat tes2 loe .. hehe

5:53 AM  
Anonymous p H said...

kami turut berduka cita, semoga beliau diampuni segala kesalahannya dan bisa bertemu dgn keluarga yg laen dan bertemu dgn-Nya, buat keluarga yg ditinggalkan tetap tabah menghadapi segalanya......

10:14 AM  
Anonymous Iwan Khoe said...

thx pe .. semua yang udah berlalu biarlah berlalu .. sekarang kita udah membuka lembaran baru .. bagaimana hidup tanpa seorang emak yang mempersatukan kita selama ini .. dan semoga keluarga besarku selalu dapat bersatu selalu walaupun tanpa ada seorang emakpun .. hehe
pieceee bro

12:55 AM  

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